Ode to the Yoni (Vagina)

Ode (from the Ancient Greek ὠδή) is a form of stately and elaborate lyrical verse. The initial model for English odes was Horace, who used the form to write meditative lyrics on various themes.

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Why you may ask would someone undertake to write in stately and elaborate form, an essay with vagina as the theme. Technically this is really not an ode in the sense I’m not competent to write in lyrical verse. I’m not a poet and of course I know it, and now if you are reading this, you know it too. Yet I can’t imagine a theme more timeless and worthy of stately and elaborate lyrical prose.

In antiquity many cultures engaged in the worship of female genitalia. The reason was simple, as this Tantric prayer illustrates, “Without the Yoni, even the Lord cannot create.” The people of India regarded creation as one the grandest miracles and found divinity in the female sex organ that helped facilitate it. The worship of “Lajja-gowri” (The Shy Goddess) is a form “Yoni” worship. Such idols could be found at deserted temples in Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh and Maharashtra states of India. The stone or mud icon of a nude female has its feet held back so that the genitalia is prominently exhibited. She also features fully developed breasts. The hands are raised and clenched in fists, or holding lotus flowers. The head is represented by large lotus. The body is very richly ornamented. The women having problems with their puberty, menses, conceiving and child-birth take vows to worship Lajja-gowri with all the dedication they can command. As part of this ritual they apply butter and kumkum and sometimes lick the yoni of the idol. Another similar type of practice was prevalent at Chandragutti in Karnataka state. Women favored by the Goddess Renuka worshipped in nude. Such customs and rituals connected with eroticism are prevalent throughout India in one form or the other.

As a submissive man I am totally onboard with the idea of Yoni worship. Vaginas as are the women who own them central to human existence, but they still remain largely undervalued and under appreciated. Certainly a Yoni seems imminently suited as an object of worship. Here I’m not speaking in the sense of honoring or showing reverence for female genitalia as one might worship a divine being or supernatural power. But more in the sense of offering extravagant respect or admiration for or devotion to an object of esteem. Many words come to mind when I think about vaginas, mysterious for one. If you think about it, with males our junk is just pretty much out there in plain view. Not so with women, the vagina is hidden behind beautiful, soft folds of delectable and tender flesh, almost like a beautiful flower which is the reason for the illustration I chose for today. In fact, an artist by the name of Nick Karras, has a web site which features ten very tasteful and artistic, non-pornographic black and white, close up images of ten very different vaginas, each unique but attractive in its own right. He has named aptly named his web site, “Petals.” So apparently I’m not the only man who sees the rich symbolism of flowers in comparison to vaginas.

Before delving further into this idea about worshipping vaginas, I think we should engage in a little anatomical review and clear up a misnomer. In common speech, the term vagina (from Latin, literally "sheath" or "scabbard") is often used to refer to the vulva or female genitals generally. Strictly speaking, the vagina is a specific internal structure and the vulva is the exterior genitalia only. The vagina proper is an elastic muscular canal that extends from the cervix to the vulva. The vulva is comprised of the Prepuce, Clitoris, Labia Menora (Minor lips), and Labia Majora (Major lips). The vagina, along with the inside of the vulva, are the female bits with the familiar reddish pink color. I think it is fine to refer to a woman’s genitalia as vagina since the word is in common use, as long as you understand the difference between vulva and vagina.

Lots of different words are used to refer to a woman’s genitalia; beaver (circa 1920), box (circa 1940), cunt (15th century), pussy (19th century), snatch (19th century), and twat (17th century) to name a few of the more recognizable and common ones. Yoni, the Hindu word for vagina is commonly used today because of the popularity of tantric sex practices. Dr. Catherine Blackledge, author of The Story of V, a fascinating dip into the cultural background and etymology of the vagina, points out that there is a wealth of varied and incredible terms for female genitalia, far more than there are for male genitalia. The reason for that she explains is that we are still less comfortable and confident talking about female sexual anatomy and female sexual pleasure than we are about male sexual anatomy and sexual pleasure. I suppose “pussy” is my favorite as I like saying it myself and think it is very erotic when a woman says it. "Cunt" on the other hand is a word I’ve never cared for or used because it seems coarse, crude, and well just disrespectful to refer to something of such great beauty with a word like that. There is beauty to be sure and many pussies are actually very pretty.

Back to the subject of worship and why I feel it’s appropriate. First, as mentioned there is beauty to behold when admiring a woman’s pussy. Beautiful, pretty, and cute are all words that I think can be properly applied. There is the mysterious element that I spoke of earlier. The is also the part I like best when it comes to female genitalia, the erotic, arousing wetness. During sexual arousal and particularly stimulation of the clitoris, the walls of the vagina self-lubricate, reducing friction during sexual activity. Vaginal lubrication is provided by the Bartholin's glands near the vaginal opening and the cervix. This is the single most exciting part of a woman’s genitalia. In intimate contact, I love the feel, the scent and the taste of her wetness. Just having a woman tell me she is wet never ceases to arouse me and always produces an erection. That alone is more than sufficient to put me in the worshipful mood. Finally, I think it’s appropriate to worship at the very altar and symbol of her femininity to show adoration, affection and respect for the woman herself. When I think of worship, I’m not thinking of praying, burning incense or lighting candles, but of offering tender, enthusiastic and respectful oral sex to the woman. That is definitely something I never withhold or tire of. Women have differences when it comes to receiving oral. I once dated a woman who would take it for hours on end and once had sixteen consecutive orgasms. Gosh I miss her! The last woman I seriously dated loved receiving oral, but after one orgasm she finished stating that continued oral stimulation after that point “tickled” and wasn’t enjoyable for her. She preferred oral simply as foreplay and a precursor to penetration. I take very seriously the responsibility as a man to learn how to give a woman pleasing and satisfying oral sex and believe all men should have the same view. I have spent lots of time reading books, magazine articles and web sites on the subject. In addition I have asked female friends with whom I was close enough to discuss such intimate topics with to tell me what they liked and disliked about the techniques they have experienced. It’s a very easy way to show a woman how much you adore and value her and care about her desires and needs.

Perhaps I have an oral fetish but all I know is I simply love cunnilingus and adoring a female in this way is something I simply love to do. Hopefully I have offered you cogent reasons for why I personally enjoy Yoni worship and perhaps stimulated men to do a bit more of it, giving devotion and esteem where it is most certainly due.

Pussy Whipped and Proud

I am so filled with thoughts as I continue my journey into submission that there are so many words in me that seek an outlet. So I beg your forbearance today as I feel compelled to make yet another double post day of it…

Will Rogers, the twentieth-century American humorist, was once quoted as saying, “I never met a man I didn’t like.” I think most men if polled could turn that phrase and be quoted as saying, “I never met a pussy I didn’t like.” Men generally spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about pussy, chasing pussy, and some fortunate numbers of men even spend a good deal of time getting pussy. Let me hasten to say that I mean absolutely no disrespect to women by using the word “pussy” to describe the much desired and sought after part of the female anatomy. Unfortunately I know many men tend to objectify women and see them only as a “pussy” and a potential receptacle for their penises and ultimately their ejaculate, but I am certainly not using it in this sense. Hopefully you know by now if you have followed this blog at all, that I very much respect and admire all females. I am an educated man and thus am quite familiar with the clinical term “vagina”. I do think vagina is a good word too but for some reason I find that the term pussy just strikes an erotic chord for me perhaps because it sounds just a little bit naughty. Actually just hearing the word, and especially when it is spoken by a woman, sends my arousal soaring.

There are lots of other informal words commonly used to describe the vagina besides pussy. Cunt for example is one such word. Actually I have never liked the word myself. Unlike the eroticism I find in pussy, cunt actually seems to me a crude and disrespectful word and one that could not possibly be used for any purpose other than objectifying or denigrating females. I personally would never refer to a woman’s vagina by using that word. Yoni has emerged as another commonly used word to refer to the vagina due to the relatively recent popularity of Tantric sex principles. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "sacred space" or "sacred temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is certainly an idea that many men could do well to learn. I really like the word Yoni as well, especially because of the connotation of respect inherent in it, but still I have to admit, pussy is the word for vagina that really touches me deepest.

You may be curious about why I have chosen today to write about pussies. As a submissive man I should you might say be considerate, respectful, and admiring of the “whole woman” and not simply concentrate on one her most obvious sexual parts. Please bear with me and hopefully by the time we finish, you will understand where I am coming from.

Not to brag but really just an objective reality that operates as a function of the fact that I have been on the planet for a good many years, it has been my pleasure to see up close and personal, a good number of pussies. After the first several it was a very striking revelation to me that no two pussies are the same. Here I am talking more in the sense of aesthetics rather than tactile sensation, although a similar case could be made for that as well. All are attractive and desirable but they are all as unique as the woman that owns them. With penises on the other hand, I think one could safely say that if you have seen one you have seen them all. Yes, there are differences in lengths, differences in size, differences in girth, some are circumcised and some or not, but at least in my opinion all are basically the same. Not so however with the pussy. One could theoretically see a million of them and never have seen them all. There are similarities of course but never duplication.

There are many things that I admire and find delightful about this particular part of a woman’s anatomy. I like the look and quite correctly I think terms like cute, pretty and beautiful can be used to describe a pussy. I love the complexity; the urethral opening, the labia minor or smooth inner lips of the vulva, the labia major or the fleshier outer lips, the clitoris or hard round “button” at the top of the vulva which is sometimes hooded or concealed, and the vaginal canal itself which leads to the cervix. I also love the feminine “scent of a woman”. To quote the character Lt. Col. Frank Slade, from the movie of the same title, “Ooh, but I still smell her.” “Whoo-ah!” “Yes, Mr. Sims, there's only two syllables in this whole wide world worth hearing: pussy. Hah! Are you listenin' to me, son? I'm givin' ya pearls here.” Finally, the “wetness” simply melts me and makes me so extremely aroused. This ability to naturally lubricate is in my opinion the pinnacle of positive pussy properties.

Now to my purpose for this piece, admittedly I spend a good deal of my time, perhaps an inordinate amount, thinking about my Mistress’s pussy. This has especially been true since we have become well enough acquainted that I have developed a sense of intimacy with her as a part of our interaction. I have never seen it but I rather suspect my Mistress has a most perfect pussy since I find everything I know of her is perfect to me. The unique thing about my Mistress’s pussy is that she “owns” it. As a submissive man I will never “own” a woman so of course I could never “own” a pussy. In the alternative, my Mistress does in a very real sense own me so it logically follows that she “owns” my penis. The point here is that whatever my Mistress chooses to share with me with regards to her pussy is a precious and treasured gift for me, because I certainly have no rights of ownership with respect to her pussy. This curious situation certainly puts me in the position of finding her pussy to be something to be desired, treasured and actually most accurately to be worshipped. No I do not offer prayers to my Mistress’s pussy, burn incense to it, or offer it alms. I am speaking of worship more in terms of an extravagant respect or admiration for or devotion to an object of esteem. Certainly my Mistress’s pussy is an object worthy of my esteem, my extravagant respect, admiration and devotion, since she herself is worthy of all of those things. So for me it seems only natural that I would spend a good deal of time contemplating and desiring my Mistress’s pussy.

When I say “desire” I am not speaking of any idea that I would ever be worthy to gratify my own sexual urges by penetrating my Mistress’s pussy. What comes to mind when I think of honoring, respecting and worshipping her pussy is providing her with respectful oral servitude. Since my very first experience with cunnilingus, I have been completely enamored with it and I simply love giving a woman oral sex. In fact I absolutely never get tired of it and will give in just as often and just as long as they want it. In fact, without exception, every woman I have ever been intimate with who has experienced cunnilingus from other men have told me stories with a common theme; “I can’t believe you love licking me so much.” “Most of the men I have ever been with act as if they are only doing it out of a sense of obligation or they only do it half-heartedly for a very few minutes.” So as I think of my Mistress’s pussy, as I think of worshipping it, as I desire it I can think of no better way of expressing my honor for her, my respect for her, my admiration for her and the high esteem in which I hold her, than by imagining worshipping at the ultimate alter of her femininity by respectfully and delicately licking her pussy for as long as she wishes it and for as many orgasms as she wishes to experience. I dream of delicately licking the opening between her outer lips, exploring the mystical inner nether regions of her vaginal canal after delicately parting her outer lips to gain access to the soft and tender flesh of her labia minor. I fantasize about teasing her clit to hardness with the tip of my tongue, making small circles around it and running the tip of my tongue up and down each side. I have pleasant visions of gently nipping at her clit and then taking between my lips to suck it. Oh and just the thought of lapping up ever precious drop of her feminine wetness. Isn’t this really what worship is all about? And by worshipping my Mistress’s pussy, am I not offering the same to the whole of her being as well?

I think the quotation I offered at the beginning, “I never met a pussy I didn’t like” should well be modified by men who should say it and mean it, “I never met a pussy I didn’t love and respect.” Yes, I admit it, I am pussy whipped….but proud!